One of the most distinctive Thai
customs is the Wai and say Sawaddee Ka
or Krub which is showing greeting, farewell or acknowledgment,
it comes in several forms reflecting the relative status of those
involved, but generally it involves a prayer-like gesture with the
hands and a bow of the head.
Anotable social norm holds that touching
someone on the head may be considered rude. It is also considered
rude to place one's feet at a level above someone else's head, especially
if that person is of higher social standing. This is because the
Thai people consider the foot to be the dirtiest and lowest part
of the body, and the head the most respected and highest part of
the body. This also influences how Thais sit when on the ground
-- their feet always pointing away from others, tucked to the sior
behind them. Pointing at or touching something with the feet is
also considered rude.
It is also considered extremely rude
to step on a Thai coin, because the king's head appears on the coin.
When sitting in a temple, one is expected to point one's feet away
from images of the Buddha. Shrines inside Thai residences are arranged
so as to ensure that the feet are not pointed towards the religious
icons -- such as placing the shrine on the same wall as the head
of a bed if a house is too small to remove the shrine from the bedroom
entirely.
It is also customary to remove one's
footwear before entering a home or a temple and not to step on the
threshold.
Thai marriage ceremonies are divided
into two parts: a Buddhist component and non-Buddhist component
rooted in folk traditions which centers on the couple's family.
A couple would seek a blessing from their local temple before or
afer being married and might consult a monk for astrological advice
in setting an auspicious date for the wedding. The non-Buddhist
portions of the wedding would take place away from the temple and
would often take place on a separate day.
The Thai dowry system is known as
the "Sin Sodt". Traditionally, the groom will be expected
to pay a sum of money to the family to compensate them and to demonstrate
that the groom is financially capable of taking core of their daughter.
Sometimes, this sum is purely symbolic and will be returned to the
bride and groom after the wedding has taken place.
Traditionally funerals last for a
week. Crying is discouraged during the funeral so as not to worry
the spirit of the deceased. Many activities surrounding the funeral
are intended to make merit for the deceased. Copies of Buddhist
scriptures may be printed and distributed in the name of the deceased
and gifts are usually given to a local temple. Monks are invited
to chant prayers that are intended to provide merit for the deceased
as well as to provide protection against the possibility of the
dead relative returning as a malicious spirit. Often, a thread is
connected to the corpse or coffin which is held by the chanting
monks during their recitation; this thread is intended to transfer
the merit of the monks' recitation to the deceased. The corpse is
cremated and the urn with the ash is usually kept in a chedi in
the local temple. The Chinese minority however buries the deceased. |